In this personal account, Caitlyn Moony shares her journey of transitioning to life in Vancouver. For more captivating stories like this, explore CBC’s First Person section.
I once received a message from an ex featuring lyrics from a song by British artist Passenger that pondered loving someone only after they are gone. It struck me as impolite to express such sentiments after parting ways, so I chose to ignore the gesture.
Reflecting on the past, I reminisce about my initial impressions upon relocating to Vancouver from Johannesburg back in 2018. Having been a freelance social researcher in South Africa, I cherished my work but faced stagnant career prospects and meager pay. Concerns about financial stability for myself and my aging parents prompted my decision to seek new opportunities. With previous experiences living in different countries, including Ukraine, southeast Asia, and the U.K., adapting to change was ingrained in me. Moreover, Vancouver, consistently recognized as one of the top cities to reside in, already housed my sister and her expanding family. The allure of Canada, with its polite culture and charismatic leader, seemed like a promising change.
Anticipating a lifestyle filled with yoga in Kitsilano, skiing on Grouse Mountain, and beach outings at English Bay, I envisioned a seamless integration into Vancouver’s vibrant setting.
Upon arrival, Vancouver’s natural beauty captivated me. The sight of the majestic North Shore mountains from various parts of the city, the soothing rain in Pacific Spirit Park, and the endearing gestures of bus drivers added to the city’s charm.
However, as time passed, my initial infatuation with Vancouver waned. Faced with challenges of limited professional networks and the elusive “Canadian experience” prerequisite in job applications, I found myself in a taxing administrative role at a startup. The demanding work hours barely covered the exorbitant rent for my cramped basement accommodation, leading to a sense of exhaustion and frustration.
My feelings of isolation and dissatisfaction manifested as disdain towards the city’s infrastructure and pace of life. The absence of familiar communities left me yearning for connection and belonging, highlighting Vancouver’s perceived lack of social engagement.
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